Heading "Psychology"

As is known, there are good mums, and is – not so. And good mums something differ from the bad. It is logical to admit, that the good child love. With it precisely you will not argue. But what means "love"? Very often the love is understood, how anxiety. And the anxiety is a desire all to provide. And as all to provide it is impossible, there is an alarm. And even fear. Good mum – disturbing mum, truly? Then leaves, that the favourite child – the nervous child. Here it – idyll!

My kid badly eats!

Even two-month butuz it is capable to show unambiguously to parents, that it is hungry. If to your child of more than two months, mean, that she something ate all this time, and to you each time was possible to decipher its existential message truly. The annual kid already perfectly can specify in meal a finger if its indignant low is ignored by the native. When also it does not help, the child simply approaches to a table and takes a slice of meal which has liked, without superfluous doubts. dvuletka, as a rule, in general it is loud opovishchue I will name that food which wishes to eat. The three-year child already bargains: at first a chocolate, and then – soup. If the child or has more four years, it zadurit you in no time, also will be full, and – nakushaetsja (with your help) that to it is most tasty. It is noticed what to put consider tasty completely not obligatory that parents and pediatrists consider harmful.

Numerous researches have shown, that a principal cause of divorces is egoism of spouses and elementary inability to live not only the interests, but also to listen to opinion and desires of other person. That a matrimonial life happy it was necessary to study to understand the significant other since marriage is not the everyday holiday accompanied by a remarkable march of Mendelson.

To study in home life it is necessary for much! It is necessary to learn to shut eyes to many trifles, to learn to understand another's outlook on life, easy to perceive weaknesses and habits of other person. As they say: you are not able to change circumstance then change the relation to these circumstances.

This problem face the majority of parents of our country. And the problem reason simple - the child does not understand, what for it is necessary for it. That is there is no motivation. The main thing here - not to try to motivate with its sweets or any compensations. Then you should increase every year compensation, it will elicit estimations at teachers and good it will not end with anything neither for you, nor for it. And this all will end with that for final examinations it will be necessary to buy the car.

What it is necessary to reach, is a desire to study which goes from within, an internal train to know more, the train to be able more. This formation of the person and as you understand, for a day to generate character it is impossible. Therefore the first, that is necessary for us is time. The second is your persistence. You should put many efforts.

Absence of the father, as is known, is reflected in education of the child not highly. However to compensate, though partially, absence of the father nevertheless is possible. And about it is article.

Somebody from relatives who regularly happen in the house of lonely mother and its child, or from its colleagues can incur this role. However, lonely mother can have a friend in whom she would like to see the the man. Certainly, that to occurrence in the house of such one constant friend the son of preschool age and the same son who has incurred a role of "head of the family" differently will concern. It is not necessary to be surprised, if in the first case it will be easier (not always, but more often) at the child with the new man of mother quite friendly normal contacts will be come into, and in the second case can arise a different sort of complication and conflicts.

5 councils that it is better to "turn a deaf ear" during pregnancy. Conversations, councils, signs accompany the pregnant woman always and everywhere: on a visit at the future grandmother and on a party at the girlfriend, in the overflowed bus and in the market, in female consultation and in shop of the goods for children. Apparently, this unique condition, when anybody from surrounding people including absolutely unfamiliar, cannot remain indifferent to you. All is good, only very much bothers. Irritates. Irritates. And in the family way it is not necessary to be nervous, as is known. Therefore I would like to tell today to pregnant women happy the madam about what you by all means should face in the near future. «The opponent needs to be known by sight!», Especially, if "opponent" spoils to you and the kid mood. Hence...