Heading "Family"

Numerous researches have shown, that a principal cause of divorces is egoism of spouses and elementary inability to live not only the interests, but also to listen to opinion and desires of other person. That a matrimonial life happy it was necessary to study to understand the significant other since marriage is not the everyday holiday accompanied by a remarkable march of Mendelson.

To study in home life it is necessary for much! It is necessary to learn to shut eyes to many trifles, to learn to understand another's outlook on life, easy to perceive weaknesses and habits of other person. As they say: you are not able to change circumstance then change the relation to these circumstances.

Men and women – “beings from different planets” or “related souls”? What it, man's happiness? A myth it or a reality? We will slightly open a door in the mysterious world of man's soul …

Men, exactly, as well as women, aspire to a happy, harmonious and financially secure life is the conclusive true confirmed not that years, and centuries. Other question, that concepts of happiness, let alone ways of its achievement, can be not only different, and cardinally opposite. About it popular wisdom, aphorisms and sayings say also.

The family psychologist. The proof-reader and the adviser in affairs everyday. The assistant in stubborn situations. Much still can be added about specialisation of the family psychologist – the spectrum of its knowledge and abilities should be rather extensive. Recently began very popular to have the "" family psychologist. So, than the people, searching councils at experts of the similar plan are guided? First of all, the client searches for the psychologist, whose operational experience means the big luggage of knowledge of human psychology (motivation of acts of the family person). The reasons of search of the psychologist too different – from misunderstanding in a family to frank tyranny and despotism from one of spouses.

The family our fortress, our house native but as it is a lot of quarrels and conflicts occurs in it. I suggest to familiarise with basic laws of family therapy. Knowingly psychologists lean till now against the given researches in the work with families. For modern practical psychologists ideas and an operational experience with conflicts which cover not one generation have special value.

"Unlike classical family therapy, the most important element of my approach is comprehension of that behind any behaviour, even the love costs to that seems to us very strange. The latent operating force of all symptoms too is the love. Hence, it is very important, that the psychotherapist has found that point where all energy of love of the person as here there is also a root of its family problem, and a key to the permission of difficulties" is concentrated. Bert Hellinger.

Young mum it is faster concept social, rather than the physiological. To measures of a modern society, to young mums rank all women who have given birth to the child in eighteen years or earlier.

However several decades ago such practice was universal and ordinary. Now all has changed - in the developed countries of the woman for a long time postpone occurrence of the first-born for a lath in thirty years, and at all of us similar tendencies are more often observed. Meanwhile, often enough mothers become and in fifteen-sixteen years.

Certainly, the decision to get children is very serious event and demands from mother not only the raised responsibility, but also certain stability of conditions of a life. The child will take away on itself a lot of time and forces, to demand love and care. Whether can provide all she is the girl who only just has left school?